Tonya Eichler - Online Memorial Website

Dear Tonya,

   Oh my god how much i miss you. What does a person do with all of this. I have alot of things I am facing and would love to just talk to you and get your advice. You were the person in the whole world that I could talk to about anything. I talk to Jody quite a bit and he does help. I just always have a heartache inside even though maybe on the outside it looks good. Its like the song the funny little clown smiling on the outside. Well this heartache is so strong and no one can fix it but time. I have been thinking about calling you and then I remember you dont get phone calls where you are at. I love you and think about you every day and miss you so much. Love you xoxoxoxoxo Rhonda

Hello, You are the sweetest sister. We came to see you this weekend for your birthday!!! We gave  you your wish of being in the smoky mountains. I hope you are so happy and peaceful. I miss you so terribly much. Ashleigh even made you a birthday cake. It was really good and it was chocolate your favorite. The puppy you picked out for mom is so adorable and dad is fallng for her. We named her giggy and sounds like she is quite busy at mom and dads. Belle was a little afraid of her and didnt want her by her at all. lol She is such a happy baby. I love you and miss you past a point you couldnt even imagine. I would love to hear your voice get your advice anything woud do. I will stop for now but I am always thinking of you. You are my sweet angel sister. You are really southernyankeeangel. xoxo Love you!!! 

Dear Tonya, Just starting out my day and it has been a whole month without you. I miss you so much. Just had a memorial service for you on feb 20. The kids came and Jody and Kerry. It was nice as far as seeing people we have not seen in awhile. I loved having them here but I felt such a missing part of our family. I love you so much and sometimes it is so hard because I just want to hear your voice or hug you. I found a letter you wrote to me with all those wonderful things you always said to me. I am going to read everyday. I have to watch little children now and will write more another day. I miss having you to talk to about that too. I love you and miss you my beautiful sweet sister. Love Rhonda xoxoxoxoxxoxox

Dear Tonya,

  Well of course i miss you everyday. I wish I could just hear your voice. I try to check in with your kids often!! I talk to Autumn every couple of days. Talk to Jody everyday or at least text. It helps to talk to everyone that loved yoiu!! Autumn says she is going to take me on a trip since we will not be able to go on our b-day trip. She says I can go anywhere I want when she turns 18. So she says she has 4 years to save money!! God bless her!! I am getting a little better as you well know but still have a great big hole. Life just seems to go on even though I want to say hey dont you know my sister is not here any more. Cant wait to see the kids this weekend for your memorial service. They will help all of us and of course bell will make us laugh. She gives us all a kind of peace when she is around. I love you and miss you every minute. Rhonda

Dear Tonya,

    I miss you so much and some days dont know what to do. I always had you to call whenever I needed to talk. No matter if it was happy thoughts or angry. You were my person to cry to, you know Bill doesnt do well with that but he told me he would work on it. I made alot of plans with you too and I will miss you when I am old sitting on the porch by myself. Who is going to wipe my saliva? lol Also our birthday plans have changed a little and I will be there for yours this year. I am glad Ashleigh found this site it does help some. I can write forever but I will say more this week. Love you and miss you with all my heart..........Rhonda

Dear Tonya,
   Where to start......I miss you so much!! You were the most beautiful person i have known inside and out. You never believed any of that but you were. You were a great mother because look at your wonderful children. You didnt always believe that but they turned out to be great kids and you are a big part of that. I dont think that i will ever love anyone like i do you. I do have so many good stories about you and will keep writing letters. Nicole has homework and have to give her computer. I love you!! Your sister Rhonda